A guide to saying it like a local
How to Say "And you" in French
The standard French way to return a greeting or question to someone you're addressing with 'vous'.
Et vous ?
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After someone asks you 'Comment allez-vous ?' or 'Ça va ?', use this to ask them back. It's also used after you've given your name or a piece of information and want to know theirs.
Alternatives
- Et toi ?Use this when you're already using 'tu' with the person.
- Et puis vous ?Slightly more conversational, often used when adding a new topic or person.
Ways to get it wrong
Pronouncing the 't' in 'Et'
The 't' in 'et' is silent; it's pronounced like 'ay'.
Forgetting the liaison
While not always mandatory, a slight 'n' sound can link 'et' and 'vous' in faster speech, making it sound more natural.
A small cultural note
Returning the question is a fundamental part of polite conversation in France, showing you're engaged and considerate.
The same phrase in other languages
Frequently asked
When do I use 'Et vous' vs 'Et toi'?
Use 'Et vous ?' when you're addressing someone with 'vous' (strangers, elders, formal settings). Use 'Et toi ?' when you're already using 'tu' with them (friends, family, children).
What if someone asks 'Ça va ?' to me?
You can reply 'Ça va bien, merci, et vous ?' to return the question politely. This covers the greeting and reciprocation in one go.
Is 'Et vous?' only for greetings?
No, it's used anytime you've answered a question or given information and want to ask the same of the person you're speaking to, provided you're using 'vous'.
