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How to Say "Can i have your number" in Italian

Ask for someone's phone number in Italian with this common, direct phrase. Perfect for when you want to stay in touch after meeting someone new.

Mi dai il tuo numero?

mee DAH-ee eel TOO-oh NOO-meh-rohcasual

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Use this when you've had a good conversation with someone and want to continue it later, perhaps after a date or a pleasant encounter. It's a straightforward way to ask for their contact information.

Alternatives

  • Posso avere il tuo numero?Slightly more polite, but still common.
  • Mi passi il tuo numero?A bit more informal, like 'Can you give me your number?'

Ways to get it wrong

Using 'potrei' instead of 'posso'

'Potrei' is conditional and sounds overly hesitant; 'posso' (can I) is more direct and natural here.

Pronouncing 'tuo' like 'too'

The 'u' in 'tuo' is short and sharp, not a long 'oo' sound.

A small cultural note

Directness in asking for a number is generally accepted in Italy, especially in more urban settings. Don't be afraid to be clear about your intentions.

Frequently asked

how to ask for phone number in italian

The most common way is 'Mi dai il tuo numero?'. You can also use 'Posso avere il tuo numero?' which is slightly more formal.

is it rude to ask for a number in italy

Not at all, as long as you've established some rapport. Using the informal 'tu' form is key for casual encounters.

what if they say no to giving number italy

Just smile and say 'Capisco' (I understand) or 'Nessun problema' (No problem). It's important to be gracious and not push further.