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How to Say "I'm jealous" in Italian
Express jealousy in Italian with 'Sono geloso/a' and understand when to use it.
Sono geloso/a.
SO-noh jeh-LO-soh / SO-noh jeh-LO-sahneutral
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Use this when you feel envious of someone's possession, achievement, or relationship. For example, if a friend gets a promotion you wanted, or if your partner is talking to someone you find attractive.
Alternatives
- Che invidia!Use this for a lighter, more general feeling of envy.
- Mi rode.More informal, implies a gnawing or irritating jealousy.
Ways to get it wrong
Confusing 'geloso' with 'gelato'
'Gelato' means ice cream, not jealous; the pronunciation is similar but the meaning is entirely different.
Incorrect gender agreement
Remember to use 'geloso' if you are male and 'gelosa' if you are female.
A small cultural note
While Italians can be possessive or envious, openly admitting 'gelosia' (jealousy) can sometimes be seen as a sign of insecurity, depending on the situation.
Frequently asked
How to say I'm jealous of someone's job in Italian?
You can say 'Sono geloso/a del suo lavoro.' This directly translates to 'I am jealous of his/her job.'
When is 'geloso' too strong to use?
Using 'geloso/a' for minor things might sound overly dramatic. For lighter envy, 'Che invidia!' is often more appropriate.
Is there a difference between 'geloso' and 'invidioso'?
'Geloso' usually refers to romantic jealousy or possessiveness, while 'invidioso' is broader envy of possessions or success.