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How to Say "It's complicated" in Italian

The Italian phrase for 'it's complicated,' perfect for navigating tricky social situations with a touch of mystery.

È complicato.

eh kom-plee-KAH-tohneutral

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Use this when someone asks about your relationship status or a romantic entanglement that isn't straightforward. It's a polite way to signal that the situation is nuanced and you don't want to go into detail.

Alternatives

  • È una lunga storia.Use this when you want to imply it's complicated because of a long backstory.
  • Ci sono degli sviluppi.This suggests things are changing or developing, hinting at complexity.

Ways to get it wrong

Complicato vs. Complesso

While similar, 'complicato' is more common for personal situations, 'complesso' for more abstract or technical issues.

Stress on 'pli'

Make sure to stress the 'KAH' syllable, not the 'pli'.

A small cultural note

Italians often appreciate a bit of mystery in personal matters, so this phrase can be quite effective without seeming evasive.

Frequently asked

What does 'è complicato' mean in dating?

In dating, 'è complicato' means the romantic situation isn't simple. It could mean you're seeing someone but not exclusively, or there are other factors making it unclear.

How to say 'it's complicated' in Italian casually?

È complicato' is already quite neutral and works in casual settings. You could add a shrug for extra casualness.

When to use 'è complicato' vs 'è una lunga storia'?

'È complicato' is a general statement of complexity. 'È una lunga storia' specifically implies that the complexity comes from a lengthy or involved past.