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How to Say "May i sit here" in Italian
Ask permission to take a seat with this polite and common Italian phrase.
Posso sedermi qui?
POS-soh seh-DEER-mee KWEEneutral
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Use this when you want to join someone at a table in a café or restaurant, or if you're in a shared space and need to ask if a seat is free. It's polite and direct.
Alternatives
- Mi posso sedere qui?Slightly more informal, common in spoken Italian.
- È libero questo posto?Asks if the seat is free, implying you want to sit.
Ways to get it wrong
Forgetting the 'mi'
The verb 'sedersi' (to sit down) is reflexive, so you need 'mi' before 'posso' or 'posso sedermi'.
Incorrect verb form
Use 'posso' (I can) with the infinitive 'sedermi', not 'posso sedo'.
A small cultural note
In Italy, it's generally expected to ask before sitting in a seat that might be occupied or reserved, especially in public places.
Frequently asked
how to ask to sit down in italian
The most common way is 'Posso sedermi qui?'. This directly asks for permission to sit in a specific spot.
is posso sedermi qui formal
It's a neutral and polite phrase, suitable for most situations. You can use it with people you don't know well.
what if someone is already sitting there
If someone is already at the table or clearly using the seat, you'd usually ask 'Scusi, è libero questo posto?' (Excuse me, is this seat free?) first.
