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How to Say "He's like a brother to me" in Spanish
Learn how to express deep, platonic bonds in Spanish by saying someone is like a brother to you with this natural, common phrase.
Es como un hermano para mí.
es KOH-moh oon er-MAH-noh PAH-rah meeneutral
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Use this when you want to describe a close friend who feels like family. It is perfect for introducing a best friend to your parents or explaining your loyalty to someone during a heartfelt conversation.
Alternatives
- Es mi hermano de otra madre.Use this for a more idiomatic, 'brother from another mother' vibe.
- Lo considero como un hermano.Use this when you want to emphasize your personal choice to treat them as family.
- Es mi hermano del alma.Use this for a soul-deep, lifelong connection.
Ways to get it wrong
Forgetting the silent H
Ensure you do not pronounce the 'h' in 'hermano'; it should sound like 'er-MAH-noh'.
Literal translation confusion
Avoid saying 'es como un hermano a mí,' as 'para mí' is the correct preposition for expressing a personal perspective.
A small cultural note
In many Latin American cultures, this phrase is used to signal high levels of trust and social inclusion, often implying that the person is welcome in your home at any time.
Frequently asked
Can I use this phrase for a female friend?
Yes, simply change 'hermano' to 'hermana' to match the gender of the person you are talking about. The rest of the sentence remains exactly the same.
Is this phrase too intimate for a new friend?
It is definitely a strong statement of friendship, so save it for someone you have known for a while. Using it too early might sound a bit intense.
How do I say he is my best friend instead?
You would say 'Es mi mejor amigo.' This focuses on the friendship status rather than comparing them to a family member.
