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How to Say "We don't get along" in Spanish
Express that you and someone else don't have a good relationship or often argue.
No nos llevamos bien.
noh nohs leh-VAH-mohs bee-EHNneutral
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Use this when you're talking about a difficult relationship with a family member, friend, or even a coworker. It's perfect for explaining why you avoid certain people or why interactions are tense.
Alternatives
- No nos entendemos.Use this if the core issue is a lack of understanding or communication.
- Tenemos malas relaciones.This sounds a bit more formal and emphasizes a history of conflict.
Ways to get it wrong
Confusing 'llevar' with 'carry'
Remember 'llevarse bien' is a set phrase for getting along, not about physically carrying something.
Incorrect pronoun placement
The reflexive pronouns 'nos' must come before the conjugated verb 'llevamos'.
A small cultural note
In many Spanish-speaking cultures, family relationships are highly valued, so admitting you don't get along with someone might carry a bit more weight than in some English-speaking contexts.
Frequently asked
What's the difference between 'no nos llevamos bien' and 'no nos hablamos'?
'No nos llevamos bien' means you don't have a good relationship or get along. 'No nos hablamos' means you are not speaking to each other, implying a current estrangement or fight.
Can I use 'no nos llevamos bien' for friends?
Yes, you can use it for friends, family, colleagues, or anyone you have a difficult or conflict-ridden relationship with.
How to say 'we don't get along' in a very casual way?
While 'no nos llevamos bien' is quite versatile, you might hear more slang depending on the region, but this phrase is widely understood and appropriate.
