A guide to saying it like a local
How to Say "We're engaged" in French
Announce your engagement in French with 'Nous sommes fiancés', the standard way to say 'we're engaged'.
Nous sommes fiancés
noo soh-mah-fEE-ahn-SAYneutral
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Use this phrase when you want to officially inform friends, family, or colleagues that you and your partner are planning to marry. It's the direct equivalent of announcing your engagement.
Alternatives
- On est fiancésMore casual, often used in spoken French among friends.
- Je me suis fiancé(e)Used when one person is speaking for themselves, not as a couple.
Ways to get it wrong
Pronouncing 'fiancés'
The 'c' is soft like 's', and the 'é' sounds like 'ay' in 'say'. Avoid a hard 'k' sound.
Missing the liaison
In spoken French, connect the 's' of 'sommes' to the 'f' of 'fiancés' for smoother pronunciation.
A small cultural note
While 'fiancés' is the most common term, the actual engagement period and traditions can vary widely across France.
The same phrase in other languages
Frequently asked
How do I say we are getting married in French?
You can say 'Nous allons nous marier'. This focuses on the upcoming wedding rather than the engagement itself.
What's the difference between fiancés and mariés?
'Fiancés' means engaged, meaning you are planning to marry. 'Mariés' means married, indicating the wedding has already taken place.
Can I use 'On est fiancés' in formal settings?
While common in speech, 'On est fiancés' is generally considered more casual than 'Nous sommes fiancés'.
