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How to Say "This is my partner" in Italian
Introduce your female partner in Italian with 'Questa è la mia compagna.'
Questa è la mia compagna.
KWESS-tah eh lah MEE-ah kom-PAHN-yahneutral
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Use this when introducing your girlfriend or wife to friends, colleagues, or acquaintances. It's a standard way to clearly state your relationship status.
Alternatives
- Questa è la mia ragazza.Slightly more casual, often used for girlfriends.
- Questa è la mia fidanzata.Specifically means 'fiancée' or 'girlfriend' if marriage is imminent.
Ways to get it wrong
Compagna vs. Companion
While 'compagna' can mean companion, in this context, it specifically refers to a female partner or spouse.
Gender agreement
Remember to use 'compagno' for a male partner; 'Questa è il mio compagno.'
A small cultural note
In Italy, it's common to introduce your partner with a clear statement of relationship, especially if you're not married.
Frequently asked
What if my partner is male?
You would say 'Questo è il mio compagno.' The pronoun 'questo' changes to masculine and 'compagno' is the male equivalent.
Is 'compagna' always for a wife?
Not necessarily. 'Compagna' can refer to a long-term girlfriend or a wife; the context usually makes it clear.
Can I use 'moglie'?
Yes, 'Questa è mia moglie' specifically means 'This is my wife' and is used only for married women.